Everything brought us here.
Meditatie en uitwisseling in "de Schatkamer"
Maandag 18 augustus, 2025 (English below)
Dierbare Sangha,
Gisterenavond vond ik een foto van een dierbare vriendin die lang geleden is overleden. Bijna 20 jaar terug.
Een warme herinnering kwam op:
Het was een gewone namiddag in haar appartement. De zon stond laag en ze had thee gezet. Het licht viel op haar piano en ik vroeg achteloos: "Speel je nog wel eens?" Zonder iets te zeggen ging ze zitten en toverde een dromerige, melodieuse reeks van accoorden. Het unieke van het moment was direct voelbaar. Ik had haar nog nooit horen spelen. Toen ze stopte en de klep dicht deed, vroeg ik wat ze gespeeld had. "O, niks, gewoon improvisatie"
In die improvisatie kwamen veel dingen samen, haar jaren en uren lange oefening. De klank en stemming van deze piano, het licht de acoustiek van de ruimte. De relaxte lazy sfeer van die middag en haar overgave aan het moment. Ik heb haar niet gevraagd waar ze aan dacht toen ze speelde, waarschijnlijk aan niets konkreets.
Alles wat verschijnt hangt af van aanleiding en condities. Het huidige moment is gemaakt van alle aanleidingen en condities van het verleden. Onze voorouders, de vorming van de aarde, de seizoenen, planten en dieren. Ook de toekomst is gemaakt van aanleidingen en condities.
Deze zomer wees Cuong Lu ons op een spraakverwarring. Als we zeggen dat de toekomst komt, (of er nog niet is) dan is dat niet als een persoon die op bezoek komt. Die persoon bestaat al, is onderweg, maar is nog niet bij onze voordeur.
De toekomst is anders dan dat, de toekomst bestaat nog niet en zal gevormd worden door onze gedachten, handelingen en alle (externe) omstandigheden. De toekomst zal nog ontstaan.
Hoe ben ik aanwezig in de wereld en hoe is de wereld aanwezig in mij.
Het huidig moment staat niet op zich, het verleden is niet weg en de toekomst ligt besloten in onze aanwezigheid. Als je die drie in je denken uit elkaar trekt en van elkaar scheidt doe je iets onmogelijks.
Als we accepteren dat de mens poreus en tijdelijk is, dat grenzen een fictie zijn, in ruimte en tijd, is er niets om vast te houden en niets om mee vast te houden.
We zijn ieder moment nieuw en anders, die twee mensen in dat appartement 20 jaar geleden bestaan allebei niet meer.
Het leven is daarmee een wondelijk geschenk. Een kostbaar uniek geschenk. Jij en ik zijn een uniek wonder. Waarbij we de mogenlijkheid hebben om zonder afscheiding te leven, met dankbaarheid en compassie.
Stoppen van vasthouden, van innerlijke strijd opent je hart en geeft ruimte voor verbinding.
Thuiskomen bij de stilte die in je is, bij de verbinding die er altijd is.
Maandagavond zullen we mediteren en delen .
Ik wens ons een mooi weekend, vol verbinding en compassie.
Warme groeten
Hans
Als je meer wilt lezen is de Engelse zoekterm: Conditioned co-arising.
Of in Sanskrit: Pratītyasamutpāda
Daarin staat: Dit is omdat dat is, dit is niet omdat dat niet is.
Een prachtige poetische tekst is in het boek van Thich Nhat Hanh: "Inside the now, meditations on time"
Everything brought us here.
Meditation and sharing in "de Schatkamer" this Monday evening.
Meditation and sharing in "de Schatkamer" this Monday evening.
Dear Sangha,
yesterday evening I found a photo of a dear friend who died long time ago. Almost 20 years.
A warm memory entered my mind:
It was a normal late afternoon in the apartment. The sun was low and she had made tea. The light fell on het piano and I asked in an impulse: " Do you get to play lately?" Without words, she sat down and filled the room with a dreamy, melodic flow of chords. The uniqueness of that moment could be sensed immediately. I never heard her play before. When she stopped and closed the lid, I asked her what she just played. "Oh, nothing, just improvisation"
In that improvisation many things came together, the years and hours of practice. The sound and the tuning of the piano, the acoustics of the room, the relaxed and lazy atmosphere of that afternoon. And her surrender to the moment. I never asked her what was in her mind when she played, but most probably nothing specific.
Everything that manifests depends on causes and conditions. The present moment is made out of all causes and conditions of the past. Our ancestors, the formation of the earth, the seasons, the plants and animals. Also the future is made of causes and conditions.
This summer Cuong Lu made us aware of a misconception caused by our language. When we say that the future is coming, it is not like a person that will come to visit us. The person already exists, but has not yet reached our front door.
The future is completely different, the future does not exist at all. It will be formed by our thoughts, our actions and all other (external) circumstances. The future will be formed.
How am I present in this world and how is the world present in me.
The present moment does not exist on its own, the past is not gone and the future is embedded in our presence. When you try to separate or isolate those three, you are doing something impossible.
When we accept that a human is porous and temporary, that boundaries (in time and space) are an illusion, there is nothing too cling to and there is nothing to cling with.
We are new and different in every moment. Those two persons in that apartment 20 years ago do no longer exist.
Life becomes with that a wondrous gift. A precious and unique present. You and I are a unique wonder. We have the opportunity to live without separation, with gratitude and compassion.
Stopping of clinging, of inner struggle opens your heart and gives space for connectedness.
Coming home to the silence that is already in you, to the connectedness that is already there.
This Monday evening we will meditate and share together.
I wish us a wonderful weekend , full of connectedness and compassion.
Warm regards
Hans
When you want to read more on this, the search term is: Conditioned co-arising.
Or in Sanskrit: Pratītyasamutpāda
Which says: This is because that is, this is not because that is not.
A beautiful poetic text is in the book by Thich Nhat Hanh: "Inside the now, meditations on time"
yesterday evening I found a photo of a dear friend who died long time ago. Almost 20 years.
A warm memory entered my mind:
It was a normal late afternoon in the apartment. The sun was low and she had made tea. The light fell on het piano and I asked in an impulse: " Do you get to play lately?" Without words, she sat down and filled the room with a dreamy, melodic flow of chords. The uniqueness of that moment could be sensed immediately. I never heard her play before. When she stopped and closed the lid, I asked her what she just played. "Oh, nothing, just improvisation"
In that improvisation many things came together, the years and hours of practice. The sound and the tuning of the piano, the acoustics of the room, the relaxed and lazy atmosphere of that afternoon. And her surrender to the moment. I never asked her what was in her mind when she played, but most probably nothing specific.
Everything that manifests depends on causes and conditions. The present moment is made out of all causes and conditions of the past. Our ancestors, the formation of the earth, the seasons, the plants and animals. Also the future is made of causes and conditions.
This summer Cuong Lu made us aware of a misconception caused by our language. When we say that the future is coming, it is not like a person that will come to visit us. The person already exists, but has not yet reached our front door.
The future is completely different, the future does not exist at all. It will be formed by our thoughts, our actions and all other (external) circumstances. The future will be formed.
How am I present in this world and how is the world present in me.
The present moment does not exist on its own, the past is not gone and the future is embedded in our presence. When you try to separate or isolate those three, you are doing something impossible.
When we accept that a human is porous and temporary, that boundaries (in time and space) are an illusion, there is nothing too cling to and there is nothing to cling with.
We are new and different in every moment. Those two persons in that apartment 20 years ago do no longer exist.
Life becomes with that a wondrous gift. A precious and unique present. You and I are a unique wonder. We have the opportunity to live without separation, with gratitude and compassion.
Stopping of clinging, of inner struggle opens your heart and gives space for connectedness.
Coming home to the silence that is already in you, to the connectedness that is already there.
This Monday evening we will meditate and share together.
I wish us a wonderful weekend , full of connectedness and compassion.
Warm regards
Hans
When you want to read more on this, the search term is: Conditioned co-arising.
Or in Sanskrit: Pratītyasamutpāda
Which says: This is because that is, this is not because that is not.
A beautiful poetic text is in the book by Thich Nhat Hanh: "Inside the now, meditations on time"
